Dear Almost Everyone,
Stop giving me such bad examples of relationships. You’re confusing me. I keep bouncing from wanting love, to thinking love is impossible. I keep seeing what I think is perfect but behind closed doors it’s actually all screwed up! You keep making me think that love is for crazy people.
Over time, I have started to learn that relationships are SUPPOSED TO BE IMPERFECT. Why? Because HUMANS are imperfect. I told my co-worker the other day that, there will always be something that annoys me about my partner because PEOPLE annoy me, in general!
My best friend is sooooo imperfect but I LOVE HER so freaking much! I could never live without her! How come I can’t apply that to my partner, AND be comfortable with it, just like I am comfortable with my best friend? All my friends are imperfect and piss me off. Why is it that I can fight with my best friend one day and be cool the next day, no matter what! For over 12 years! But not my partner?
WAKE UP Almost Everyone! Relationships are not perfect! And from now on, I promise to take it easy on my partner and except his flaws, because NO ONE is Flawless.
Newly Conscious to the Reality of Relationships